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Our Brains Panic When Reality Doesn't Match our Expectations.
I was reminded of this while booking an airline ticket. I'd found the perfect flight at a price that fit my budget. Halfway through booking, an error message appeared: That fare is no longer available. If I wanted the exact same seat on the exact same flight, I'd have to pay significantly more. My heart started pounding. I started sweating. The voice in my head screamed, "That's it. I'm never traveling again." Nothing dangerous had happened. Yet my body reacted as though it h
saribethgoodman
Jul 232 min read


Go Ahead, Flip Out
Photo of Sari starting to flip out. Last week, someone asked me for tools to help parents stay calm when their children are melting down. I answered, "Tell them to go ahead and flip out." The room got quiet. Why would I say that? Because I'm tired of parenting advice that holds parents to the impossible standard of staying calm no matter what. We are constantly told to breathe deeply, regulate our emotions, and respond with endless patience. And aren't parents human? Don't we
saribethgoodman
Jun 242 min read


The Gift Shop Conspiracy: How to Save Time, Money, and Sanity When Going Places With Your Kids
Nothing tests a parent's patience more than a child in a gift shop during a fun, but long excursion day.
saribethgoodman
May 132 min read


What's the Punishment?!
Parents ask me this a lot. They describe the behavior: 🤯lying 🤯refusal 🤯defiance
saribethgoodman
Mar 44 min read


Unload the Overload
Business teams don’t run smoothly because everyone is trying harder .They run smoothly because there are policies, procedures, and routines in place. Imagine a company where: Employees have to be reminded to log into their email every morning Meetings start only after someone tracks people down No one knows the steps for submitting an expense report It’s a systems problem . Yet at home, we parents often operate without systems while managing more emotional intensity, unpredi
saribethgoodman
Jan 62 min read


Beware the 3rd-Day-Crash (I’m Not Talking About the Kids)
3rd-Day-Crash Survival Kit The new school year is starting soon…And I want to warn you about something that sneaks up fast: The...
saribethgoodman
Aug 4, 20252 min read


When is a Trip Not a Vacation?
A dad recently vented on Reddit that traveling with young kids felt more like work than fun. One commenter offered a simple vocabulary...
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Jul 10, 20252 min read


Kids Don't Get Sarcasm
A TikTok Trend: Not as Harmless as It Seems There’s a TikTok trend going around where parents joke to their kids, “I’m so hungry, I could...
saribethgoodman
May 29, 20252 min read


Are You THAT Parent?
Are you THAT Parent? Recently, a parent asked for advice on how to help her 3 year old navigate preschool. The child came home upset,...
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Mar 28, 20252 min read


We Don't Bounce Back
Experiencing trauma, loss, and pain changes us. We don't "bounce back" to our previous state. We change and cope.
saribethgoodman
Feb 3, 20252 min read


Kids Need HR for the Holidays
I do not intend to belittle the very real harassment and microaggressions people experience at work. HR exists to address those issues,...
saribethgoodman
Dec 18, 20242 min read


She's Not Thankful
I saw this Facebook post yesterday on Thanksgiving. Being a mother is literally the most unfulfilling, unrewarding job in the world. ...
saribethgoodman
Nov 29, 20241 min read
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